Greetings to all members of AYC educational project desire that all is well and have nice whiles, dears few days ago I faced with some information which is really useful for us and if we apply these information in our daily life we would be the promoted family in our society, the information I was faced is “How to bring up a disciplined and good child” and would like to share with you guys if you apply these rules in your family your family would be the best and would have good and disciplined family and children, let’s take a look at those rules:

1): Teach your children the rules of the household (and those you want them to abide by): It may sound harsh but you must bring boundaries into the house and do it early because then they will be less upset when you punish them. I don't believe in slapping children, I believe in naughty-steps, scolding and the warning-warning-punishment.

2): Read: Do not start them with watching TV all day. Read them to sleep and also give them educational books that teach them to read and write themselves.

3): Be an example: Monkey see-monkey do. You should not do something that you wish your children not to do, even when they are not in your presence.

4): Teach them to be healthy and widen their tastes: Start them with fruit and vegetable and learn them to brush. You should widen their taste to different foods but don't force.

5): Love and respect: As your child gets older they want more respect and privacy but at the same time, they deep-down want your love. Learn to respect and give them a more mature love that doesn't involve kissing.

6): Never go by the saying "If you want to act like a child, I'll treat you like one": It doesn't work and only ends up with older children getting angrier.

7): Educate them: You should be asking them what they did in school today, what they enjoy and don't and especially what they find difficult.

8): Let them be themselves: Don't choose their bedroom layout for them or telling them what jobs they can't and can do, it makes them feel useless and annoyed also they are afraid they will upset you.

9): Make older siblings feel involved in the younger siblings lives: Older siblings should not be left out or be made to feel like they must be an example. Let older siblings feel involved in younger siblings being brought up.

Now your turn, share your thoughts regarding this issue.

Best Regards,

 

Mellad Ahmad from Checknawry AYC

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Thank you very much Mellad Ahmad for sharing a nice discussion with us.

          Really you have pointed an important issue that our forthcoming generation seems to be like this. I think children are the unique group of our society that we are waiting for them to have shine and brightness future. We expect them to be the strong pillar of our community. They should be the competitor with the other worlds. But beside of expect ions they also need some requirements. And this is the responsibility of our community elders including each of us to pave them the way. We have to prepare them the environment to get perfect and sound education. I want to mention that stabilized environment is very, very important for our children, in any manner. The government and authorities must realize their responsibilities related the children. We should care about their health which is very important, parents plays the main role in this regard, especially the mothers should pay more than attention others to train their children polite and sound.

 

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Abdul Rasheed “Fanakzai”

Agriuclture AYC IT

Hello dear brother

Wish you be safe and sound, thanks a lot to share a good issue with us.

Dear brother we have different ways for children to train them good, first we must enroll them in schools because school is the only place for human to learn about good and bad and know how to respect elders and how to behave with people and also the teachers show them how to read and write but parents are responsible to enroll their children and show to them good activities and send them to Madrassa. if children are educated the future of a country will be promote and if a country have children but uneducated then this country is back warded country in the whole world the government have to pave the way for children or young generation and they must keep their attention on children because maybe in the future they will be a good personality and they will serve for their country.

Thanks,

Hamza Karime from Technical AYC

 

Hello dear brother Hope to be fine and healthy Thanks a lot for sharing such an important issue with us. Exactly that is so important steps for good children’s. Children’s have so clean and so soft hearts and we should love them first we should enroll them in school to get education and to know about bad and good people and also learn about wrong and correct ways Our children have a shine and brightness future in their life. A family is responsible to show the best ways and the best manner to their children’s And show how to respect the parents and the elders. Thanks again Manija hamdard from bibizainab high school.

 

Hello sir

I hope you fine and have a good time

Thanks for your nice interview with us

We have a lot of way for children to train them very good first we must sent him to school because school is only place that he can learn a lot of thing and know who am I  and we should join to institute.

And responsibility of teachers to his child to show how to learn how to write and how to read and show to them a good activates. If a children was learn a lot of thing after when he young he have a good and very rest and have a brightness future.

Children is a big and beautiful gift from Allah  

Thanks……………

Hijratullah Muslim shaheed M arif AYC

Hello Dear Brother!

I hope you are fine and have great and happy life with your family and Friends.

So according to your question I want to say: first of all thanks for your information you are really selected a great topic that’s about disciplined child.

And I think that we should follow our parents’ ways that ways which has positive sign because it is cause to have a bright future, and don’t follow negative ways because it is misfortune.

Thanks Again.

Tariq Khan From Shaheed M Arif AYC 

In the name of almighty Allah hello dear bro wish you healthy and doing well  first of all  when we get married we must think about children to how many children we can trained  if we birth many children and not have capacity of training  it will be the big mistake of us

And the second think is we must not let our children in street in other places where they become don we must give the their responsibility and tell the if you learn today your destiny will bright if you not learn your destiny will dark on that time you will be not have any word for talking

These advices can make themes disciplined  and also school is the place where they become  disciplined   

We enroll our in school or madrassa

So let be so sensitive about our children disciplined   

In the name of most merciful and compassion almighty Allah

First of all Aslamualikum dear all. Hope everybody fine and doing well .thanks for this important topic about discipline which very important issue in our lives.

So I am agree with these rules as we know everything  in our live have rules and regulations so the most important issues in the houses and homes are applying discipline. So without discipline and rule I think nothing will be improved and can promote. Rules and regulations are making the basic and fundamental of home and houses. So we should care in every stage of live to discipline and rules because by this we can have a happy live and which regulation you mentioned are the important thing for applying discipline. Every member of family have  rule and responsibility  of applying discipline so hope all understand and care about discipline of their lives.

Thank you

Basmina Momand from Bibi Zainab high school

Dear Mellad Ahmad jan from Checknawry AYC,

I really like the way you have written about the children, it is very awesome topic being posted.

The following words which has been dictated below I hope it catches your attention!

There are three stages for the children.

The first one is monarchy:  in this time kids are like king whatever they want they could do I mean they could do everything what is their best task they do it, it is why nobody tell them any words if they receive any words out of their chose they may cry or get sad as result parents don’t like their children feel bad or sad some sort.

However, the second stage is called fell happy delighted, in this time kids are very happy because there no responsibility from family, I mean no need to fulfill the expenditure daily expenses. Going anywhere no worry about anything just like free of whole responsibility.

On the other hand, the last stage is called accountability in this time children are supposed to be a person who is totally one who gives shoulder to his parents help them in every aspect of life, a time that must finished school, college and as well effort how to start a good life in his future life.

Kids who believe they can do anything they feel like doing, and get whatever they want, tend to be the ones who act out by whining or throwing a tantrum when their demands aren't met. "Children who understand that there are well-defined boundaries learn how to self-regulate and to respect limits,

Thanks,

Samim Omid

Istiqlal AYC 

Hello dear brother

Hope you will be fine and doing well.

Thanks for sharing such a big issue with us

I am agree  with you that now  a days a lot of students are facing to such a problem as like undisciplined

Disciplining Training Small Children helps to understand biblical discipline and how it is carried out on little children at different stages of life using different scenarios such as feeding, etc. This is part of the book: Godly Beginnings for the Family. Many parents no longer think that they can truly influence their children’s life and behavior. Nothing is further from the truth. All of the proverbs that address the issue of child training confirm the parents’ awesome sphere of influence and responsibility to train their children. If the parent fails to train the child by neglect or improper procedures (such as not utilizing physically correction), then the child will suffer the consequences.

After describing biblical discipline and its goals, this session will give you practical helps on how to train a child from the baby stage up through the toddler stage and beyond.

Thanks again

Student of  NingAyc  Asadullah and sarbaz akhnzad ……….

 

Hello dear   Ustad,

 Hope you are fine and doing good,

Dear Ustad we have different ways for children to train them good, first we must enroll them in schools because school is the only place for human to learn about good and bad and know how to respect elders and how to behave with people and also the teachers show them how to read and write but parents are responsible to enroll their children and show to them good activities and send them to Madrassa. if children are educated the future of a country will be promote and if a country have children but uneducated then this country is back warded country in the whole world the government have to pave the way for children or young generation and they must keep their attention on children because maybe in the future they will be a good personality and they will serve for their country.

And I think that we should follow our parents’ ways that ways which has positive sign because it is cause to have a bright future, and don’t follow negative ways because it is misfortune.

Thanks 

Hameedullah afghan shaheed M  Airf AYC

Hello dear brother,

I wish that you have a great time and be safe and sound. Thank you so much from your nice and interesting issue that you have shared with us. You have chosen a great issue.

Child discipline is the methods used to prevent future behavioral problems in children. The word discipline is defined as imparting knowledge and skill, in other words, to teach. In its most general sense,  refers to systematic instruction given to a disciple. To discipline means to instruct a person to follow a particular code of conduct.

Discipline is used by parents to teach their children about expectations, guidelines and principles. Children need to be given regular discipline to be taught right from wrong and to be maintained safe. Child discipline can involve rewards and punishments to teach self-control, increase desirable behaviors and decrease undesirable behaviors. While the purpose of child discipline is to develop and establish desirable social habits in children, the ultimate goal is to foster sound judgment and moral so the child develops and maintains self-discipline throughout the rest of his/her life. Because the values, beliefs, education, customs and cultures of people vary so widely, along with the age and nature of the child, methods of child discipline vary widely.

 Child discipline is a topic that draws from a wide range of interested fields, such as parenting, the professional practice of analysis, developmental, social work, and various religious perspective. In recent years, advances in the understanding of attachment parenting have provided a new background of theoretical understanding and advanced clinical and practical understanding of the effectiveness and outcome of parenting methods.

Thanks;

 Sayed Israr Sadaat from Technical AYC

Hello dear

How are you

Allah give you good health thanks for your topic i like this type topics first of all who want good children they made our good ethic and our children send in Islamic schools so they read Islamic

books and they read holy Qur'an we expect them to be the strong pillar of our country children are future

in our country they made our country good.

samiuallah chacknawery AYC

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